Earning honest money is important than not doing anything for living, all these people in the photos below have my utmost respect –
For me, it’s important to live a happy life with happy people rather than acquiring all the wealth in this world, I must not regret at the end that I did not live the life.
While driving an uninhibited stretch of MP we found a tea seller to our surprise. The place was so uninhibited that even a single mobile network was not there in that area. The milk used in the tea was so pure that we were able to get a flavor of herbs grazed by cattle.
While enjoying our tea, met a group of 4 men, coming all the way from Sagar, and were going to Allahabad (now Prayagraj) on foot for a holy dip in Ganga. They were using a bicycle to carry their belongings. A 400+ KM distance which they were planning to cover in 20 days by foot.
Despite so much advancement in technology, religious belief in humans is still strong. Many religious philosophies are not relevant in today’s world or there is a great disconnect between how those were created and what they have become over time, but people are still so attached to them. After observing human life for so many years, I think we all are living identical life. A farmer is a farmer whether he is in an Indian village or Cambodia or England, and the same applies to the middle class doing 9 to 6 jobs. Though we say that we follow a particular religion but most of the time we don’t follow what is written in our religious books. This may be because those teachings do not fit in today’s world or too difficult to follow, but we still claim to belongs to a certain religion.
Thinking, do we need to update the religious texts as per today’s society or scientific advancements? if it is updated will it still be the same religion? Will we still follow the religion religiously after the update? Will the word religiously be still relevant?
It’s like hormonal change starts to happen at the beginning of every winter, which triggers a natural urge to go on a road trip. This road trip is only limited to Madhya Pradesh so far. This year, due to the board exams of our kids, it was near impossible to maintain that tradition which we were following for the last 11 years. Thanks to the delays caused by lockdown exams were postponed and our trip plan switched on.
We have decided to touch an ancient but important city Mandu in MP and visit the nearby holy city of Ujjain. As it was a long trip from Allahabad, we took a halt at Vidisha while going and Sagar while returning back.
Our route was
Prayag (Allahabad) -> Vidisha -> Mandu -> Indore -> Ujjain -> Sagar -> Prayag (Allahabad) (Dates 24-29 Jan 2021)
Due to fog on plains, we have decided to remain in Vindyachal while going and returning back, else we could have taken the national highway.
This was the second trip of 2 consecutive trips, the earlier one was to Sariska.
The first was planned earlier and was planned with the family but at the last moment, the family pulls off, did a calculation, and found that a refund will be a great loss. So rather than canceling it decided to go with someone else, asked few friends and one of them agreed. Made few new friends there, they are of the same age group and same taste as me. It was a really amazing time staying within the jungle and spending time with like-minded people who love travel, food, and photography.
Few family friends had planned to go to Rishikesh, but the family was hesitant to ask as they have already canceled one trip. I took initiative and asked the kids if they want to go on this trip, they happily agreed. We did some quick checks and found the same hotel has few rooms, so we booked one for us. This is how our second trip happened. Posting a few photos of the trip.
While searching for my old travel photos, found a few pics, probably unposted.
Life is returning back to normal (chaotic as it was earlier), but winters are going to be difficult as it is predicted that the pandemic will return.
Nature has healed itself since March, at the same time mankind has witnessed the worst time in recent history. My grandma used to tell stories of pandemics. Pandemic so bad that it used to wipe the entire village. Earlier, war and pandemics were the main killers. Luckily this pandemic is not localized, but still took its toll and killed many people across the world.
We all have witnessed it as it spreads from China to Europe, then America, and then entered into India. Thanks to the Indian Govt for proactive measures and thanks to the immune system of Indian people, our deaths (per 100) were very less as compare to other countries of the world. Note that India is one of the densely populated countries as well.
I personally witnessed people’s exodus as soon as the lockdown was implemented and continued for a very long time. This was apparent as the number was very big and of mostly those who work on daily wage, they do not enough backup to support themselves. But exodus is still on, an exodus of people who lost jobs, lost businesses are still moving back to their ancestral home or some other place for another opportunity. Restaurants were badly hit, but other businesses like automobile were also impacted. So far I have managed to survive, not sure for how long though.
I saw people coming out to help each other in this difficult time, regardless of all differences of religion, caste, or language, people help with an open heart and help accepted gratefully.
Unlock started a couple of months back and life is coming back to normal. In between, I have traveled to Jammu 2 times for work. Learned the importance of $aving a hard way, I think everyone makes mistakes and learns lessons from them but few who remember mistakes and do not repeat succeeds in life.
Posting a few photos taken during this pandemic and my travel as well. All these photos are taken from mobile, so excuses for poor quality 😀
Also thinking to compile all photos of this year and post in a blog, there will not be much but still worth it. Will do this towards the end of the year.
At the end will request you to please sanitize your hand regularly and follow social distancing. May God bless us all!
After traveling for so many years I thought to jot down my experiences and share with you, let’s start with tips (Gyan) for traveling with family. Traveling solo, and with friends will come later. I am assuming you will be driving your own car –
- Research about place
- Do not plan to travel to more than 2 destinations if you have young kids or your partner can not match your energy level. Short trips are not more than 3 days long, you can not cover many places and get exhausted rather than enjoying the trip if you are thinking to cover so many places. There is plenty of tourist and offbeat places around Delhi, where you can go and return back during weekends or long weekends.
- Do good research about the place (refer https://wikitravel.org, highly recommended) and find out all good tourist spots around, you can also refer https://tripadviser.com for your destination and find out nearby places, read reviews. Take a printout of places or write all details of places in a notebook, hardcopies are a good backup. These sites will give you a fair idea of spots as per your taste (site-seeing, natural beauty or historical monuments, etc.).
- Other than the study of place you also need to study about good restaurants, lodging with parking space and other amenities which you want.
- Some places have opening and closing times, keep a note of that as well.
- Itinerary (planning route)
- Avoid visiting a touristic place on weekends or public holidays, they will be hugely overpriced and over-crowded.
- If you are planning for just one place, then it will be easy but in any case, make sure you have enough buffer time in hand. Delays are very common when you are traveling with family.
- Also do not calculate your ETA based on google maps, their ETA is based on continuous driving, add 10-15 minutes every 150 KMs, you will have to stop often for someone’s natures call or tea-coffee breaks or kids chocolate or chips demands along with breakfast and lunch breaks.
- Start with sunrise (in winters), calculate ETA, and make sure you either reach your destination before sunset or you have a night halt.
- Normally we just focus on the destination and do not consider interesting spots on the way, where we can stop by and spend some time with family, this can be a small historical monument or riverside, etc. Consider these points of interest, while plotting your route.
- Use google maps to plot the route, it’s very good, then search for point of interest on the route.
- Points of interest on the way will make your return journey interesting as well, else towards the end of the trip, you will just focus on reaching home and will not enjoy that drive at all, neither your family, they will just sit, get bored and wait to reach the home.
- Sometimes fuel stations are far from the place where you are going, make sure to fill your car tank on the way to avoid any hassle.
- Hotel booking
- Most tricky bits! while traveling with family you can not afford to go without booking hotels in advance.
- Try to locate a hotel in the middle of all points of interest in the destination, so that you can cut down local travel time and return back to the hotel whenever you want to.
- Use https://www.tripadviser.com and read reviews and ratings of hotels at your destination. Book from MMT, Agoda, booking.com, etc, or the hotel website directly.
- My personal preference is the govt. hotels or rest-houses. They are located at the best spot, maintain a good standard of accommodation and food is also hygienic. For Uttarakhand search for KMVN or GMVN hotels, Rajasthan RTDC hotels, Himachal HPTDC, for MP look for MPSTDC hotels.
- Once you book the hotel, call the hotel in advance and tell them when you are arriving, call them again on the day you start your travel, keep updating them if you are late, trust me shit happens!
- Sometimes confirmed booking gets canceled due to overbooking, it’s very common in tourist places. I went to Shimla once with the family, and after considering rating, reviews, parking space, Wi-Fi, hot water supply, and what not I booked a 4-star hotel in advance. Half-way on the way the hotel manager called me and said that they can not accommodate us as the hotel was over-booked due to a software glitch. In the end, they have accommodated us in a very smelly room and the car was parked 1 KM away.
- No matter how much you think and plan, once you cross 50 KM from your home, you will start recollecting what you have forgotten to bring along. This is a very common problem, do not worry much about that, you have everything using which you can enjoy your trip.
- Always keep thin clothing, thin towel in your list of items to pack. Open your drawer and visit the bathroom a few times, and check if you will need anything from there. I find it a good practice that if you see something then you can decide if you need that or not. Power bank, mobile chargers, toothpaste, slippers are a few things I often forget while packing, but with this review process, chances of missing something will be greatly reduced.
- Try to keep the number of bags minimal, keep those things handy which you may need during travel, for example, snacks for kids or camera, jacket or other warm clothing, rest you can pack in one or two bags and dump in the boot. These will be things which you only need at the destination or next days. You can not negate the truth that extra baggage will be with you if you are traveling with family.
- Fooding (what and where to eat)
- When stopping for breakfast or lunch, make sure the place is neither too crowded nor totally empty. If the crowd is more, then you may not get the taste of food which you wanted and if no one wants to stop at a restaurant, then its service is not up to mark. A restaurant with a moderate crowd will be best where you can direct the cook about salt and chili ratio or quantity of ginger for your masala tea. After traveling for so many years, my menu is almost fixed now, Aalu paratha+butter with masala tea for breakfast and daal-tadka with butter roti for lunch. I prefer not to experiment with food during travel. I hardly had dinner on the way, as most of the time we reach to destination or place of night halt before dinner time.
- Quickly consumed items like paratha or daal are fresh, you can find others by looking on to other people’s plates. Avoid sweets if you are driving as they may trigger sleep, also you do not know how long back those were prepared.
- It’s funny but normally I do not order food for myself whenever traveling with family, as I know they will order extra and I can feed myself on the leftover. I hate food wastage. But if you see that food wastage is inevitable, better feed cows or dogs around rather than leaving on the plate.
- You would want to take your family to a local market where they can buy few souvenirs or gift items, always remember to buy few gift items for friends and family back home, they will love it and remember you whenever they see or use it. Personally, I did not follow this practice of buying gifts for a very long time though 😛 (which is bad).
- Roaming around
- Keep light while traveling in local, keep one small backpack per person, doesn’t matter if it empty in the beginning, it will get filled with stuff in your local travel for sure. For me, I have to carry 2 lenses which are bulky and heavy, along with a camera body, so a backpack is a must for me. I do not carry a tripod while traveling local, flash I do not have. You really need not worry about carrying food or water bottles, as you can get packaged water bottles, biscuits or chocolates everywhere.
- Always remember that traveling in local places is the core part of this trip, this is the reason why you are here, so do not rush or give timelines to your family or friends, let them take their own time, enjoy and experience the place. If you are tired and do not want to roam around, you may sit someplace and tell them to catch you when they are done.
- Match the pace with the slowest person in the group, they will bless you 😀
- Allocate a certain budget for kids or other family members for local shopping.
- Respect the privacy of other people. Being a tourist do not take everything for granted if you want to take a photo of something ask the owner if you want to take a photo of someone take their consent. The best trick to get permission is to befriend them, talk to them for sometime before taking your camera out and asking for photos.
- Return journey
- Give more time to your return journey, spend some time to those point of interests which you have identified during planning.
Add if I have missed anything or you think needed, comments are open 🙂
My younger daughter has created my photo portfolio by selecting photos of her choice, then created a video. Hope you will like it 🙂
Just adding some random thoughts as well –
- Try to solve one new problem every day, learn something new every week.
- 99.99 % of us die without making any difference to society at any level (city, state, country, or humanity as a whole). Most of the time we live life for ourselves or immediate relatives.
- Most of us just accept and get what life throws to us, which we can change with very little effort, but we normally don’t do that effort.